Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Day 2

We went to our appointment at the civil affairs office. It went very smoothly. Luke's nanny was there, he went to her but didn't want to make eye contact and went willingly back to Craig when she handed him off. A little quiet and concerned look on his face for a time but then he was playing around like he had in our hotel room. We filled out the registration (so he can get a passport) and met with the notary to finalize the adoption. He is ours!

We have had a nice day today. We came back from those appointments, had lunch, rested, went to the grocery store and on a walk around town, played in the room for a bit, had dinner and the older kids want to go swim. So I guess I am headed toward the pool.

Luke is a very happy kid and pretty easy to take care of. He is learning that what we say we mean. For example when we are walking around town we want him to hold our hands or be held. When he wants down we let him down but if he won't hold our hands he gets scooped back up. We are trying to teach him signs like more, eat and drink. None of this is coming very quickly. Although it is only day 2 so we have time to work on those things.

He is playing well with the kids and likes to share his phone--if he has his hands on it. He will only wear the shoes that he came with although the clothes he doesn't care about. He is still in diapers so much to our dismay we will be potty training again-a small matter.

Thanks so much for your comments. We love getting "mail" from home and hope things are well with you all. As you pray could you remember Amanda in your prayers she has a small cold that we would like to go away so she can be healthy.

5 comments:

Erin Bonine said...

Praying for Amanda. Not easy to be sick, and even less so far from home. Any hint of Swine flu in China?

I love that you are setting boundries so early, consistency is Luke's best friend as he transitions. You guys just rock!

Congrats Wickoff family of five!

Nancy Brandt said...

Amanda,
You are a wonderful big sister to both of your brothers! Love, Nancy Brandt

Kendall Yake said...

I loved looking through the pictures! It's real! I also laughed out loud reading the commentary on each picture...It truly does seem like this is all going way better than you could have ever hoped! God is so so good...and he's true to the desires and passions he places in our hearts. Praying for you all,
Kendall

Anonymous said...

Dear Wikoffs & Jody,

We are stil in AZ, and with services over and most family gone have finally had a chance to catch up on your adventures. Your blog is wonderful, and the pics are icing on the cake. What a darling boy! We can see the joy in all your faces, including Luke's. I know there are hard times too, but what a wonderful family--you look like you belong together! You are in our prayers for the rest of your time in China and safe trip home. Thanks for sharing this special time with us. The Hardings.

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful little boy. I have been praying for Luke, because he is the same age as Callie's little boy and can't imagine if his whole world was turned upside down, even though it is the best for him.
Lord, Be with this special family and be their strength as they prepare to come home. Amen